Sometimes, it sucks to be the kind, patient and understanding wife. Men can be real selfish at times. They shove all the responsibilities onto their wife's shoulder and with an excuse, come home late at night. I wonder how some women can tolerate such husbands. I believe this is because men assume they are the bread-winner of the family, and thus, have all the rights to come and go as they please. Women should never allow themselves to fall into the financial insecurity trap. Find means to earn some money of your own and never let your man know that you have money. This way, if you are sick and tired of living the life you are in, you have the means to "walk away" from it all.